Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Friday, September 07, 2007
friendS-M-Ship

I've got a friend. He studies in my hometown. He is young. He is a nice boy. He's lonely.Sometimes he sends me sms, sometimes he sends me "missed calls" in the middle of the night.
And when we do get a talking or sms-ing. We usually get right back to the point that he's looking for someone special in his life.
Young, full of tainted innocence in a good way.
I've never met the guy before. We just sms and talk online.
He's a recent converSMSation between us..
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Joe: Do u know of any non-straight guys who r single? Intro to me can? Ha.
Me : What is your type? Physical and Personality-wise. Be Specific!
Joe: Type = non-sissy, a few years older than me. Personality=nice,not clingy, not childish. Added bonus:cute n more intelligent than me n can play da piano
Me: Build? Are you okay with long distance relationships? or does he need to be in KK?
Joe: Build = as long as he's not obese. Preferably slim. My build is not very good . Can't expect much. I don't like long distance. Friendship first. Need not be in KK.
Me: Need not be in KK but you don't want LDR? hmm...
Joe:For friendship it's ok to be long-distance.
Me: If it's friendship you're looking for, there are plenty to be found online.
Joe: Ya lo. How r? So bad. I wish I did better in my pre-u n got a place in UKM. Nvm la I'll just bear for a few more years.
Me: Well if it's a long distance friendship, how are you gonna keep it going? with your frequent famous missed calls? Like how we keep our friendS-M-Ship going, with SMS.
Joe: I want physical contact too. Someone to hug and sayang me when I want it.haha.
Me: Yeah I agree that sometimes the hugging and cuddling is much more important than the sex. It's what makes the reolationship more lasting. more special.
Joe: Of course la,but not everyone would hug you and sayang you. I'd hv got someone to do tht 4 me long long ago had i not grown up in perlis
Me:I grew up in KK so it's the same difference.
Joe: I feel very lonely sometimes though I'm surrounded by friends. Maybe coz they're straight.No one to share my inner feelings. It's a good thing my course is very hectic. It keeps me busy all da time.
Me: You know you can miss call me anytime you feel lonely.
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It all comes down to wanting to be with someone, not because one is horny for sex or clingy for affection, but just someone to be with to share a life with. This wisdom coming from a 20year old. He'll make someone a great partner one of these days. I wish him well.
Saturday, July 21, 2007
Happy Birthday Joseph!
Happy Birthday to Joseph!!!!
Today you're more than a quarter of a century old.
Today is the day you got surprised in your own home.
Today is the day you're surrounded by the closest friends whom love and care for you and wish you the best in everything everytime.
Today we sing Happy Birthday and wish in our hearts that everything will be fantastic and funtastic for you this coming year.
Thank God He made you, you.
Thank your parents for bringing you into this world
and Thank my lucky stars I met you.
Happy Birthday Joseph
We love you dearly.
Monday, April 02, 2007
You are my Star!
You are my star, You light my way,
You brighten up my nights and make my day.
You are my star, and even more
You are the friend that I've been waiting for.
You brighten up my nights and make my day.
You are my star, and even more
You are the friend that I've been waiting for.
Thursday, March 01, 2007
My adult friends and I.
We had a little reunion of the KDU Class of 2001 School of H&T, Dip 3 recently. the place was 101degrees opposite Lot10. It's a lounge with a drinks list longer than their food menu but i think that's the whole point of it. Classy, attentive staff and got a nice discount from Alex's connections. I always like it being in the service industry, you can always get things at a discounted rate.
It was Allison's (Alex's Sister and the future mother of my children) 24th birthday and it just so happened that Jane (darrrrrrrling!) had come down for Chinese New Year so we called everyone for a birthday bash, Colin and I baked an oreo Cheesecake which to me seemed a bit soft mainly because it was just baked and we threw it into the freezer to set in like 2 hours. But everyone loved it.
MJ was there too surrounded by the beautiful girls of DIP3!
Kha Yen brought her boy Mark who was quite cute too. hmm straight guys always seem more hmmm attractive..maybe cause they're so unattainable? Not that I've tried to turn em anyways.
Joseph, my bebe, came a bit late because he had stuff to do, still I was glad he could make it so I could introduce him to my friends. Bebe, you passed the test, they all thought you are cute and a very nice guy, apparently they say he's lucky but I think I'm the lucky one.
Talks went on about the time we skipped class to go eat ice cream and smoke, pretending to not hear our lecturer Ms Anne shouting out our names through the 3rd floor window.
We also talked about going back to Koh Pha Ngan. The original Pha Ngan 5 were there, Yuhei, Kha Yen, MJ, Allison and I. If you haven't been, you should really go there for the full moon party.
We were always thought of at college as the "bad" group, always smoking, always noisy in class but then I thought we were pretty good, in fact, dare I say COOL good?
~grins~
My 2 cents?
We've all grown up, but still the same nice, misunderstood by most except ourselves, people that we've always been. No doubt work has torn us apart but we still remain friends and you know making friends when you're already an adult just makes it different, I feel like my application forms for adult friends are running low and these people are in my "cool" list. I know it's so uncool to say "cool!" but as I said to Jenn who said it's uncool to not have a friendster account,
It's cool to be uncool
Wednesday, January 03, 2007
Happy Noo Yeah!

Hips gyrating, bodies glistening from the sweat, dancefloor packed, podium swinging.. that was how my new year eve countdown was like. Had a brief stopover with some friends at the Malaysian Ravers Association private party then on to Orange Club for the Prince Fest Playground party.You could feel the good vibes upon entering the club, you could smell the anticipation of the boys for the coming new year.


Sister was bedecked in sequins, thigh high leather boots and toy police gun set... she looked more fabulous than the drag queens who were desperately trying to look like real women. ~chuckles~
There we were, superman, s&m girl deputy sheriff, Light Saber star wars boy and me, in my laser pointer ray gun and my tee that said "I come in 15 new and exciting positions"

There was so much love in the club. We were mostly loved up dancing and flying to the high powered excellent music provided by DJ's David K and Princess Ann. Excellent music by excellent DJ's, I sometimes wonder why they bother bringing in international DJs if they spin music that suxx eggs.
So, new years resolution this year?

1) To be more magnanimous and not abuse people's trust
2) To join the gym and get rid of my "baby fat"
3) To travel more and widen my view on life
4) To kickstart my independent career as a maker of beautiful cakes
5) To be more of a friend, brother and lover.
6) To eat more fruit
7) To get my life in order.
Lets make this year a fantastic one shall we people?
waZZa is O.U.T
Tuesday, March 28, 2006
The plan is..
True Friends, good food and fashion.
Necessity is the mother of Invention. But when it becomes incestuous and they both mate then comes a grand idea.
It's hard to find good food which is affordable and delicious. It's almost impossible to find a restaurant that makes us comfortable like our own home. It's like squeezing blood from a stone to get people to dress up these days for dinner parties. It's vistually impossible for good friends and new friends to gather together for something as simple as dinner.
What if, a group of friends, whom are passionate about food and some have food as their lifeblood and careers, what if they come together and have a Easter gathering. They could start at the furthest point for pre-dinner drinks and hors douvres, then move onto the next house for main courses and then to a resort-style condo for dessert and finally cap off the night with after dinner drinks at a friend's new place in the heart of the city.
So the plan is just that.
Four weeks from now, on the second weekend of Easter, hopefully this too will come to pass.
Easter marks a new beginning, rebirth, new life. Something for the inner gourmet to look forward to and hope for the fashion dis-inclined to be bedecked in the latest spring fashions. Spring, Easter, pastel colours never looked so fresh. And who knows, for those with the yesteryear memories or borrow notions of Easter Egg hunts, it might just be your night.
Happy Easter to all bunnies and chicks everywhere.
Necessity is the mother of Invention. But when it becomes incestuous and they both mate then comes a grand idea.
It's hard to find good food which is affordable and delicious. It's almost impossible to find a restaurant that makes us comfortable like our own home. It's like squeezing blood from a stone to get people to dress up these days for dinner parties. It's vistually impossible for good friends and new friends to gather together for something as simple as dinner.
What if, a group of friends, whom are passionate about food and some have food as their lifeblood and careers, what if they come together and have a Easter gathering. They could start at the furthest point for pre-dinner drinks and hors douvres, then move onto the next house for main courses and then to a resort-style condo for dessert and finally cap off the night with after dinner drinks at a friend's new place in the heart of the city.
So the plan is just that.
Four weeks from now, on the second weekend of Easter, hopefully this too will come to pass.
Easter marks a new beginning, rebirth, new life. Something for the inner gourmet to look forward to and hope for the fashion dis-inclined to be bedecked in the latest spring fashions. Spring, Easter, pastel colours never looked so fresh. And who knows, for those with the yesteryear memories or borrow notions of Easter Egg hunts, it might just be your night.
Happy Easter to all bunnies and chicks everywhere.
Sunday, January 01, 2006
New Year Fizz
New years last year was spent trying to get to the city in time, ducking the crowd, standing feet to heel sardine-like in an already overcrowded train...gotta get there, gotta have fun, gotta get drunk, gotta get kissed!
This year it was with a few good friends. Watching camp dvds (Connie & Carla and Trick), taking grand marnier shots from Korean shot glassless and having a prosperity burger meal. It was less than sparkly, less than noisy but it was good.
It felt good
We laughed and joked about old times, we reminisced about college and form six days. We dreamed out loud about the year that is to come. At the cusp of the new year, at the stroke of midnight, we drank to our health and happiness and hugged good intentions into our friends. As the fireworks lit up the sky among the "waaaahhs" and "I like that one!" and unfinished Auld Lang Synes, I began to feel it.
This year is going to be one of big changes for me. Drastic changes. I can almost taste it. I get excited when I think of it. I don't want to lose this feeling. Grab life by the balls!
TwothousandandSIX here I come...
And may this year be your plum blossom year, little darlings!
Have a dream-filled new years!
This year it was with a few good friends. Watching camp dvds (Connie & Carla and Trick), taking grand marnier shots from Korean shot glassless and having a prosperity burger meal. It was less than sparkly, less than noisy but it was good.
It felt good
We laughed and joked about old times, we reminisced about college and form six days. We dreamed out loud about the year that is to come. At the cusp of the new year, at the stroke of midnight, we drank to our health and happiness and hugged good intentions into our friends. As the fireworks lit up the sky among the "waaaahhs" and "I like that one!" and unfinished Auld Lang Synes, I began to feel it.
This year is going to be one of big changes for me. Drastic changes. I can almost taste it. I get excited when I think of it. I don't want to lose this feeling. Grab life by the balls!
Enter you! Voila it's Showtime
You brought the house down with a dance and a dum diddy
Enter you! In less then no time
This ugly drama has become pretty!
TwothousandandSIX here I come...
And may this year be your plum blossom year, little darlings!
Have a dream-filled new years!
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